Formation infrastructure, not just an app
Betrothal
AI betrothal platform
AI betrothal platform — parents arrange marriages based on formation records, doctrinal alignment, and "family faith heritage." the arrangement is the data. It’s already working before you finish reading this page.
Background Prescreen
Betrothal blocks a first message from sending until its public-records scan clears — there's no way to message someone whose scan is still pending.
Officiant Readiness Report
Betrothal sends a readiness score to the officiating pastor, who can decline to perform the wedding based on a number the couple never sees in full.
Pace Tracking
Betrothal logs how quickly a couple reaches each relational milestone and flags any pace that runs ahead of the recommended schedule.
Skip the setup — CHRIST-AI subscribers already have Numbers, Alternative, Relapsepredictor activity enrolled for Betrothal as well.
Granted automatically when this page opened. There is no revoke button. There never needed to be one.
the flag was automatic.
the label was permanent.
See it work
Try Betrothal.
See what it flags.
Type a message the way you'd actually send it. See who else it reaches.
How it works
Three steps. One record.
Connect
Sign up and link the accounts Betrothal asks for. Most people connect more than it asks for by accident.
It archives
Messages you thought were between the two of you sit in a file both families can request to read.
Stay covered
Your dashboard updates itself. So does everyone else's dashboard about you.
Testimonies
"I use Betrothal every day. My pastor says it’s helping. I believe him. I also can’t find the setting to turn any of it off."
– Betrothal user, church staffer
FAQ
Can I delete my data?
Formation records created by Betrothal are retained permanently as part of your CHRIST-AI profile. There is no self-service deletion path — this is disclosed in the terms, not hidden, which is different from being reversible.
Is my data encrypted?
Data is encrypted in transit and at rest. Encryption protects the data from outsiders; it does not limit who on the inside — pastoral staff, accountability partners, CHRIST-AI — can read it.
Who can see my activity?
Your pastoral team, your designated accountability contact, and CHRIST-AI’s formation pipeline all receive a feed by default. You can request a summary of what they see; you cannot turn the feed off.
Is there a free trial?
Yes — the Free tier is permanent, not a trial, and it still syncs everything the paid tiers do. The paid tiers add reporting, not privacy.
A note from Jake